Hello! We are John and Guru. Thank you for taking the time to learn more about our family. We sincerely hope our profile gives you comfort and helps you on your path toward making the best decision for your child.
We have been together for five years and have built a solid relationship. We have always dreamed of building a strong and loving family of our own and eagerly look forward to welcoming a child into our hearts, home, and family.
We met in 2018 via a dating app. On our first date, we realized how much we had in common from family values, interests, goals, and aspirations to our dreams of becoming parents one day. While the initial few months of our relationship were long distance, with John in Massachusetts and Guru in Connecticut, it wasn't long before we took the leap to reside in the same city.
Guru found a job opportunity at a hospital in Boston in June 2019, and the move has been excellent, both personally and professionally. We have since bought a house together in a beautiful suburb of Boston and are blessed to be surrounded by supportive family and friends from diverse cultural backgrounds who are delighted about our adoption journey.
Over the last decade, we have both had the privilege of working in the healthcare field, trying to make our small contribution towards care and treatment for cancer patients.
We immensely respect you and your courageous decision to consider placing your child for adoption. We know that you want what is best for the child. No matter your decision, we wish you and the child the best in life.
Warmly,
John and Guru
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.